“My boyfriend goes to a different school, im having a hard time because I don’t know if he’s cheating on me.”
Dear worried girlfriend, having trust and faith in your partner is the best thing two people in a relationship can have. Having fears and thoughts of your boyfriend cheating is normal, but there are two ways to go about this. You can either sit down with your boyfriend, and talk about how you feel. Tell him that going to different schools is hard for you, but that you still want to make the relationship work. If you’re willing to put in work to keep the relationship strong, then he should want to work hard too. The other method you can take is to just brush this feeling away, and trust that your boyfriend is being loyal. Pushing bad thoughts away is one of the hardest things to do, but if you spend more time with him, then those feelings may just go away. Just have fun with life. Being too concerned in small things can cause you to stress out, and if that can be avoided, then it definitely should be! Relax. Take a deep breath. Whether things work out or not, communication and faith in your partner is the strongest connection two people can have.
Lots of love,
Jackie & Tracy